It’s hard to picture right now, but one day he won’t even cross your mind. One day you’ll be so busy living life that you’ll forget how caught up on him you once were. You’ll wake up one day in such a different world. A world you’re proud of, and trust me it will happen.
Because you’re going to find someone who will make you forget every sleepless night, and every tear you’ve wasted on this breakup. He’s going to show you the love you didn’t even know you were missing. He’s going to make all this pain you feel right now go away and be nothing but a faint memory.
The truth is, heartbreak is hard. It really, really sucks. It lingers in you and makes you feel pain worse than any physical pain you have ever felt. It breaks you. Sometimes even more than the actual break up and it’s so hard to get past.
Because there’s no cast you can put on your heart for it to heal quicker, it just takes time and effort to get over such an earth shattering event. But, It does remind you that you are human and even though you may love someone with everything in you, if they don’t feel the same, it’s time for you to let go.
Relationships after heartbreaks are even scarier because everyone knows they don’t want to feel that pain again. Especially, if it ends up being worse than the break-up before…. and we all know it always does.
But you keep getting into relationships because you have hope in love. You have hope that one day you will find your person.
That one day, all the heartbreaks you’ve ever gone through will be worth it, and they will be. But just know you won’t fully forget them, and that’s okay.
Every person you’ve loved is a part of you. They gave you good memories and bad ones, but they helped shape who you are. They made you strong and they made you respect love more than you thought possible. They broke your heart to help you rebuild it, so you could eventually find the right person.
The most important thing you need to remember though is that where there is heartbreak, there is even better love. And even though right now you may feel like giving up, or that you will never love again… You will. And it will be even better than the last.
Everything in your life happens for a reason, even this heartbreak. And you may not see the reason for it now, but one day you will. So keep climbing your mountain. And promise yourself that you will do everything in your power to live the life you have always wanted to live.
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